Life-altering decisions...

You know when you come to a cross-roads in life. One of those life- altering decision making points... This isn't one of them. We need to make a decision but it's about where to go on our big overseas holiday as a married couple (before *hopefully* any kidlets arrive) I know... life is hard!

We've been planning a holiday for a long time... to the USA! For a little while we didn't think we'd be able to go and now we'd sorted things out so we can... But...

Now we're re-thinking. (hey it's a lady's prerogative to change her mind... FYI I initiated the change of mind idea... Tom isn't a lady, incase you were wondering)

So about a month here:


(well about a month in America, not solely new york and it would involve staying with friends etc to save on hotel costs)

Or a few weeks here:


With the latter costing about $2-$3k less then the first choice...

What to do??!! Suggestions welcome!